Feel Comfortable in Your Own Skin

It's no secret that the gay and lesbian communities in London and other regions of the UK often feel like they are outsiders. They feel that the mainstream public does not accept them for who they are. Often, it is the mainstream media that causes the majority of the problems to occur. People interpret things differently when they do not understand them, and those who are gay are the ones who end up suffering in the end. This is why organisations like http://www.safenetwork.org.uk are so very important. This resource provides training, events calendars, resources, and help and advice for all people.

As mentioned, one of the primary reasons why people discriminate against others, is that they do not understand them. The website located at Safe Network offers very useful definitions of sexually-identifying information. This offers much better clarification as a result. Bisexual, for example, refers to people who are romantically, physically, and/or emotionally attracted to both women and men. Gay refers to both women and men whose sexual attraction and orientation is for people of the same sex as them. Like being gay, lesbianism refers to women who have the same feelings and associations to other women.

Coming out is a process in which people foster a bisexual, lesbian, gay, or transgender identity within themselves, based upon their personal orientation to others. Once they reveal and recognise this identity to themselves, they might then choose to let others in their lives know about it. However, it is important to understand that publicly identifying oneself as gay or lesbian, may or may not be a part of a person's coming out. This topic is sensitive in that each gay person has a different opinion on when it is the best time, if at all, to come out to the general public or friends.

Homophobia is defined as a negative attitude toward gay, lesbian, and bisexual people. People who exhibit homophobic tendencies do not fully understand the gay communities. They often create notions of what being gay is in their own minds, as opposed to actually taking the time to actually get to know a person. Homophobia can be defeated, but the London community must work together to do so. The best recipe for success is to make sure that all people, not just those who identify as being gay or lesbian, have the right resources to turn to.